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In almost every Indian village, you’ll find a few girls who are far smarter than even city girls, or to speak in Gen Z terms- they can mog even metro cities girls. They have a special charm and sophistication that can match any supermodel, that too without any grooming classes or professional training. Their outlook on life is modern, and they move through their world with confidence that is both inspiring and attractive. Their communication skills are excellent, allowing them to express their thoughts clearly in polished language without any rural tone and tenor. When it comes to style, they mix traditional clothes with modern fashion trends, creating a unique look that respects their heritage while keeping up with current tastes. Most of those stylish dresses are designed by themselves and stitched by local village tailors.
They have a natural ability to handle complex situations with ease, showing impressive problem-solving skills that are beyond their years. Whether it’s settling day-to-day family issues or creatively dealing with everyday challenges, they approach problems calmly. It comes easy to them as they have not lived within the comfortable four walls in a city where everything can be fetched through an app in ten minutes, they have observed life closely, whether it be the struggles of their parents or the vagaries of different seasons, they have a knack of things around them, their sensation and perception shaped by nature.
Their personality is beauty shaped by dreams and aspirations, but grounded in reality and modesty. Both desirable and unattainable at the same time.
Some of them are so good at organizing and coordinating that they could easily be successful event managers in any city. They manage everything smoothly—from finding a lost item in the house to overseeing the maintenance of farm equipment like tractors. Their ability to handle multiple responsibilities is truly amazing. They make sure that every part of their household runs smoothly, often taking on roles traditionally held by men, without a second thought.
Don’t underestimate them; they can ride both buffaloes and bikes with equal skill.
They are fearless. They break traditional gender roles, confidently taking on tasks that challenge social norms. Whether herding cattle across large fields or riding through village lanes on a bike, they do it with an ease that impresses everyone. They have neither done any gender studies classes in top-notch universities nor attended feminism courses in over-hyped colleges. Feminism comes naturally to them, they have been raised as decision-makers and role-takers by their families.
Their feminism is demonstrated through their acts in fields and farms of villages, not mere words on social media.
Staying informed comes naturally to them. They keep up with the latest news and global trends, spending an hour before bedtime scrolling through their smartphones. Social media, news apps, and online forums are their windows to the world, allowing them to engage with ideas and cultures far beyond their village. From the online world they adopt certain dressing styles, and they carry new fashion trends with pure elegance. Even their communication style is shaped by online videos, it helps them catch up with the latest trend, so they are not ‘dehati’ in their attributes.
Their cultural versatility is truly remarkable. They can sing marriage folk songs in local dialects and switch effortlessly to raps of Bohemia or Badshah—all in the same breath. Music and dance are important parts of their lives, and they often lead as stars in community functions and family ceremonies. Their talents go beyond dance and music; they are equally good in academics, sports, and even carry vibes of notoriety.
These young women challenge the outdated view that village girls are dull or not ‘modern’ compared to urban girls. They show that modernity is not just about where you live but about your mindset and actions. These are the ‘heroines’ of the village, admired and adored by all and desired by all the men folk, both rural and urban.
For instance, consider Madhuri Dixit’s character Saraswati in the movie Beta, also starring Anil Kapoor and Aruna Irani.
Madhuri perfectly illustrates a smart rural girl who skillfully handles both household and outside challenges. Clever and resourceful, she is portrayed as a beautiful and witty woman who transforms her straightforward husband’s life for the better by standing up to the evil people around him after their marriage. She is an excellent dancer, has a strong presence of mind, and doesn’t hesitate to use clever tricks to teach her enemies a lesson. The girls we are describing share similar qualities—they are intelligent, confident, and unafraid to stand up for what is right.
